2009年05月27日
セカンドライフに恋人を取られた人々
Second Life has ruined my son's life!!!! (Second Life + RPG games + online gaming + games)
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海外のニュースでそういう三面記事みたいなのを見ることはあっても
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特殊な例だろう と思ってたんだが そういう話を上記のブログのコメント欄で見かけ
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そうでもないのかな と思った
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ブログの記事は息子を取られたという話で 最後の方のコメントにもあったけれど
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ちょっと過保護入ってるんじゃない? まあどこにもそういう人はいるんだな と思わなくもないわけだが
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LesPaul says:
Update to my previous post.
I finally lost her to that shitty game.
I no longer go on that wasting time grid where all those dreamers think they live when they are slowly dying.
What is even dumber is that some people think they met their soul mate (everyone did lol) and they are gonna be finally happy in RL if they can meet.
Bogus, have you ever seen junkies quitting their addiction by grouping together lol....
I laugh but its not funny, I lost my 7 years long girlfriend to that stupid game she got brainwashed by virtual romance...awakening is gonna be painful !!
Posted: 07/27/08 19:55
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はガールフレンドを取られたという話
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Sal says:
I have lost my boyfriend to second life; it is unfolding as I type. He started using SL in May of this year, he went on at first as a money making venture.
As he has been in internet marketing on and off over the years, I felt all was above board.
Over the last two months I have watched the man that I have spent the last sixteen years of my life with turn into a lying cheating, desperate man. I can only compare it with drug addiction.
He spent more and more time on SL at first it was some of the weekend and the odd hour or so during the week. This rose to him spending in excess of at least 70 hours a week on there.
Every time I went into his study he was shifty and angry and hostile towards me, he started detaching himself from me within a few weeks. Less affectionate, then he became more and more withdrawn.
I tried so hard to reach out to him to encourage him to talk, I read self helps articles and bought him gifts encouraged him to go on holiday.
What a holiday he took 2 lap tops and spent every night in the hotel lobby on SL, he came to bed later and later and was so absorbed in SL he couldn’t see straight.
Prior to the holiday I arrived home and he didn’t hear me, I heard him on the phone to his SL , girlfriend.
He told her he wanted all of her, that he wanted to do x, y and have her do Z. I listened to their conversation for nearly an hour and felt sick, and when confronted he said it was just a bit of fun and sexual deviancy nothing more.
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We have had our ups and downs in the relationship before and have several times decided that we should end the relationship due to not having enough in common. Yet there is a deep and special bond and love that keeps us together.
Last night I went out with my boyfriend for dinner, for the last time, it was so bitter sweet. He was there and not there, I got the distinct feeling he was doing it to appease me rather than because he actively wanted to spend time with me.
Tomorrow he flies to the US to meet this woman, who he has never met in real life, last Sunday my world fell apart, when I found a transcript of their conversations. Him telling her how much he loved her, what they would do together, how beautiful their life together was going to be.
I was then told that he wanted to split up and that he was bringing this SL girlfriend to live with him. In our home, and that I had a month to leave. He has paid her money, and is sucked in so deeply by her I may as well not exsist.
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This is the home I have shared on and off with him for nearly 12 years, I have lived overseas with him, given up numerous jobs and countless opportunities that would have benefited me personally.
This is the home that since we returned home too last summer, which is the last time he cheated on me in a personal growth centre he goes too. Yes I hear you, your thinking what a dumb, gullible woman I am.
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I agree, my crime, I fell so deeply in love with this man and have invested 16 years of my life into making him happy. Now I am forced out of my home and everything that it has taken us a life time to build up. Because we are not married, I am not entitled to very much.
He is giving me some money which will help me clear some of my debts, but I am living my own private hell. I can’t sleep, eat, drink even it is affecting my job that I started just under 2 months ago. I cry so hard I throw up, I want to hold him, I want him to love me.
Yet I have to go, I gave him the option of not going to the US to see her, but he has chosen her. So I live my second life hell for now. The person I know has gone forever, replaced with a man having a mid life crisis in total denial of the damage he is doing.
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He doesn’t want to hurt me he says he doesn’t want to cause me pain, after 16 years and doing everything a wife would do, and every spare moment spent building a happy home and supporting him in his life. It goes beyond pain, I go from numbness to shock, to anger, to fear. I hope that once I have moved out I will arrive at acceptance.
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My friends have told me I am too good for him, I lied once in this relationship, I had an affair with a man who I fell in love with. I could not live with the lie, I told my bf and despite the guy I had the affair with asking me to marry him I said no. I chose my bf as I felt our love was so pure, and that he was the true love of my life.
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That was 8 years ago, I confessed to my bf told him what I had done said I would leave if he wanted, and asked what he wanted. He forgave me and had his own indiscretions to even the score.
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So now In the last week I have lost the life I love, the man I love and don’t know how I will get through the next few days. I am on sleeping pills and feel unable to make any decision. Yet I have so many to make.
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If and when I am ever interested in having another relationship I will never date anyone with a strong interest in computers. I hate SL, it has ruined my life, it and various other forums are full of h
Posted: 07/31/08 03:45
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はボーイフレンドを取られたという話...
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この後 どうなったのか気になる人は 上のリンクをクリック w
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あんまり一方的な話も続くんだが 後ろの方にバランスを取るコメントも
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よく 自分の狭い経験の範囲 や 伝聞 で XX人はどうこう という（中二レベルの）人はいるが 確かに全体的な傾向 というものは存在するが 結局は 人によるんだよな...
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海外のニュースでそういう三面記事みたいなのを見ることはあっても
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特殊な例だろう と思ってたんだが そういう話を上記のブログのコメント欄で見かけ
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そうでもないのかな と思った
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ブログの記事は息子を取られたという話で 最後の方のコメントにもあったけれど
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ちょっと過保護入ってるんじゃない? まあどこにもそういう人はいるんだな と思わなくもないわけだが
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LesPaul says:
Update to my previous post.
I finally lost her to that shitty game.
I no longer go on that wasting time grid where all those dreamers think they live when they are slowly dying.
What is even dumber is that some people think they met their soul mate (everyone did lol) and they are gonna be finally happy in RL if they can meet.
Bogus, have you ever seen junkies quitting their addiction by grouping together lol....
I laugh but its not funny, I lost my 7 years long girlfriend to that stupid game she got brainwashed by virtual romance...awakening is gonna be painful !!
Posted: 07/27/08 19:55
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はガールフレンドを取られたという話
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Sal says:
I have lost my boyfriend to second life; it is unfolding as I type. He started using SL in May of this year, he went on at first as a money making venture.
As he has been in internet marketing on and off over the years, I felt all was above board.
Over the last two months I have watched the man that I have spent the last sixteen years of my life with turn into a lying cheating, desperate man. I can only compare it with drug addiction.
He spent more and more time on SL at first it was some of the weekend and the odd hour or so during the week. This rose to him spending in excess of at least 70 hours a week on there.
Every time I went into his study he was shifty and angry and hostile towards me, he started detaching himself from me within a few weeks. Less affectionate, then he became more and more withdrawn.
I tried so hard to reach out to him to encourage him to talk, I read self helps articles and bought him gifts encouraged him to go on holiday.
What a holiday he took 2 lap tops and spent every night in the hotel lobby on SL, he came to bed later and later and was so absorbed in SL he couldn’t see straight.
Prior to the holiday I arrived home and he didn’t hear me, I heard him on the phone to his SL , girlfriend.
He told her he wanted all of her, that he wanted to do x, y and have her do Z. I listened to their conversation for nearly an hour and felt sick, and when confronted he said it was just a bit of fun and sexual deviancy nothing more.
-----
We have had our ups and downs in the relationship before and have several times decided that we should end the relationship due to not having enough in common. Yet there is a deep and special bond and love that keeps us together.
Last night I went out with my boyfriend for dinner, for the last time, it was so bitter sweet. He was there and not there, I got the distinct feeling he was doing it to appease me rather than because he actively wanted to spend time with me.
Tomorrow he flies to the US to meet this woman, who he has never met in real life, last Sunday my world fell apart, when I found a transcript of their conversations. Him telling her how much he loved her, what they would do together, how beautiful their life together was going to be.
I was then told that he wanted to split up and that he was bringing this SL girlfriend to live with him. In our home, and that I had a month to leave. He has paid her money, and is sucked in so deeply by her I may as well not exsist.
-----
This is the home I have shared on and off with him for nearly 12 years, I have lived overseas with him, given up numerous jobs and countless opportunities that would have benefited me personally.
This is the home that since we returned home too last summer, which is the last time he cheated on me in a personal growth centre he goes too. Yes I hear you, your thinking what a dumb, gullible woman I am.
-----
I agree, my crime, I fell so deeply in love with this man and have invested 16 years of my life into making him happy. Now I am forced out of my home and everything that it has taken us a life time to build up. Because we are not married, I am not entitled to very much.
He is giving me some money which will help me clear some of my debts, but I am living my own private hell. I can’t sleep, eat, drink even it is affecting my job that I started just under 2 months ago. I cry so hard I throw up, I want to hold him, I want him to love me.
Yet I have to go, I gave him the option of not going to the US to see her, but he has chosen her. So I live my second life hell for now. The person I know has gone forever, replaced with a man having a mid life crisis in total denial of the damage he is doing.
-----
He doesn’t want to hurt me he says he doesn’t want to cause me pain, after 16 years and doing everything a wife would do, and every spare moment spent building a happy home and supporting him in his life. It goes beyond pain, I go from numbness to shock, to anger, to fear. I hope that once I have moved out I will arrive at acceptance.
-----
My friends have told me I am too good for him, I lied once in this relationship, I had an affair with a man who I fell in love with. I could not live with the lie, I told my bf and despite the guy I had the affair with asking me to marry him I said no. I chose my bf as I felt our love was so pure, and that he was the true love of my life.
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That was 8 years ago, I confessed to my bf told him what I had done said I would leave if he wanted, and asked what he wanted. He forgave me and had his own indiscretions to even the score.
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So now In the last week I have lost the life I love, the man I love and don’t know how I will get through the next few days. I am on sleeping pills and feel unable to make any decision. Yet I have so many to make.
-----
If and when I am ever interested in having another relationship I will never date anyone with a strong interest in computers. I hate SL, it has ruined my life, it and various other forums are full of h
Posted: 07/31/08 03:45
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はボーイフレンドを取られたという話...
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この後 どうなったのか気になる人は 上のリンクをクリック w
-----
あんまり一方的な話も続くんだが 後ろの方にバランスを取るコメントも
-----
よく 自分の狭い経験の範囲 や 伝聞 で XX人はどうこう という（中二レベルの）人はいるが 確かに全体的な傾向 というものは存在するが 結局は 人によるんだよな...
なんでクリックしないと画像が表示されないんだろう
SL からの tweet に成功
セカンドライフなう したい人のために ^^
セカンドライフ vs twitter
Twitterは第２の「セカンドライフ」に終わるのか
セカンドライフの次は Twitter だった
SL からの tweet に成功
セカンドライフなう したい人のために ^^
セカンドライフ vs twitter
Twitterは第２の「セカンドライフ」に終わるのか
セカンドライフの次は Twitter だった
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